Wedding Planning » Sacred vs. Secular Music

Generally, churches and/or pastors hold the view that the wedding service is a sacred event, and, thus, should only contain music of a classical or sacred nature. On the other hand (unfortunately), there are churches and pastors who do not care what type of music is used for your wedding service. The following should help you come to a decision. Of course, always consult with your priest or minister.

Demetri Khoury, Bishop of the Antiochian Orthodox Archdiocese of North America,
speaking at the 12th Annual Sacred Music Institute at Antiochian Village, PA

There is a disturbing increase not only in the desire for but also the performance of music in our churches which is wholly inappropriate. Our clergy must insist that only music approved by the Archdiocese be allowed during the celebration of any sacraments, especially weddings. The Archdiocese has made a considerable concession in allowing secular music to be played before and after weddings, but not during weddings. This must be adhered to by everyone, the clergy, the choir, directors, the chanters, and the faithful. Your ministry is one which requires not only the cooperation of the clergy but also cooperation with the clergy. When your priest explains that a piece of music is inappropriate, you need to be understanding and agree with him both privately and publicly. As others see you and your priest in agreement and cooperating with each other, they also will begin to do the same. In this way a climate of harmonious understanding and cooperation spreads throughout the entire parish.

Equally important is the need to be aware of and to follow the Archdiocesan Guidelines regarding approved music and approved liturgical practices.


Roman Catholic Wedding Liturgy Guidelines

The following is a link to a very comprehensive set of wedding liturgy guidelines set forth by the Roman Catholic Diocese of Rockville Centre, NY.

www.drvc.org/chancery/marrlit.html

This a good sample of information regarding a Roman Catholic wedding ceremony and the surrounding requirements at St. Gregory the Great Catholic Church in Danbury, CT.
Nota bene: these guidelines are for a specific parish, not necessarily your church.

www.danbury.org/stgreg/marriage.htm

This is a link to guidelines for wedding music in the Roman Catholic Archdiocese of Santa Fe, NM.

www.archdiocesesantafe.org/Offices/SacramentalPolicies/WeddingMusic.html

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